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My husband Greg and I decided to create this blog when we courting. We are now married, but this blog is intended to give you a personal perspective of a Christian courtship and marriage that seeks to be Christ-centered. When we began dating, I noticed that there were not many blogs, articles, or information in general on what a biblical relationship should look like. The boundaries, the purity, the communication, etc. This blog will include not only my perspective as a woman on courting/marriage, but also Greg’s perspective as man. I am sure we will both bring our unique perspective of our relationships with Christ and each other to you as you read our blog. We hope that if you are single, beginning a new relationship, or in a relationship, that you will be able to be encouraged by our insight on biblical courtship. It is our prayer that through this blog, you see a real couple seeking to honor Christ in every aspect of their relationship, and that you are encouraged to do the same.

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